Who will stop the bullies?


English: Steyr M9 semi-automatic pistol.

English: Steyr M9 semi-automatic pistol. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

English: Bullying on IRFE in March 5, 2007, th...

English: Bullying on IRFE in March 5, 2007, the first class day. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A brave teacher, Michael Landsberry, tried to prevent the deaths of students in his classroom in Nevada when a 12 year-old boy shot and killed him and wounded two students. The seventh-grade shooter used his parent‘s 9mm semi-automatic handgun. Classmates said the shooter had been bullied by some at the school.

When I taught fifth-grade students, there was always a boy the others seem to pick on. Every time I caught anyone bullying another student, I would lecture them before dishing out the punishment. The conversation went like this:

Me: “Why are you picking on this student?

Bully: “I don’t know. Because I can, I guess.

Me: “Are you ready to die?”

Bully: “No.”

Me: “No ma’am. Haven’t you heard about the children who get bullied until they can’t take it anymore and come to school with a gun, bent upon wiping out the school bullies?”

Bully: “yeah.”

Me: “Yes ma’am. And you are confidant that you can bully this boy and never have to pay for doing it?”

Bully: silence

This is when I would explain to the entire class that bullies were children who were bullied at home. They come to school to take out there anger against anyone they feel is weak. It is a vicious cycle that has to stop. No one likes to be bullied and no one likes the bully.

I believe that someone has to be bold enough to demand that parents who create bullies must be punished when their child bullies another. As long as the people who create bullies go unpunished, the cycle will never end.

Murderers, serial killers, mass killers and bullies are created by bad parenting, neglectful parenting or abusive parenting. Until we punish the parents, some of the guilty go unpunished. Harsh? Yes. Life is harsh. You don’t have to be wealthy to be a good parent, you just have to love the child more than you love yourself.

Too many families include parents who are so selfish, they spend every dime and every spare minute on themselves. They teach their children to hate, encourage them to act hatefully and blame the victim when caught.

And why on earth would a parent have such a handgun lying around the house and not locked up the way it should be? The parents should be looked at for neglecting their son. Obviously, he had no support on the home front. Sadness abounds.

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4 thoughts on “Who will stop the bullies?

  1. Excellent post. Bullying is a very crucial issue that faces our children blatantly in today’s world. I agree with you that parenting needs to improve. At the same time I believe accountability for such acts has to be there for the bully. Canadian government has passed a legislation regarding cyber bullying with the minimum punishment of five years behind bars for the bullies. I think this will deter the bullies since they know they will face serious consequences. Great topic and the post. Thanks for sharing with us. Take care and God bless.

    • Thanks so much for reading and commenting. You are right. I believe the bully should be punished, but how do we stop parents from creating them if we don’t punish them also? Some parents may be innocent, but those for whom it can be established that they abused their child, should be punished likewise.

  2. Reblogged this on These Christian Times and commented:
    I can remember the Bullies that picked on me when I was younger. The constant taunting and ridiculed showered on me by my tormentors. The sad thing is that all of this can be prevented and it really starts at home with the parent being the first person to apply discipline and moral support to the one who lashes out on the rest of society. Parents need to be more involved with their kids. That day seems to be passing as more and more children are overwhelmed by other influences of this world other then their parents. They

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